Remove comparator.hh and switch to <=> in a bunch of places

Known behavior changes:

- `MemorySourceAccessor`'s comparison operators no longer forget to
  compare the `SourceAccessor` base class.

Progress on #10832

What remains for that issue is hopefully much easier!

src/libexpr/attr-set.hh

@@ -27,9 +27,9 @@ struct Attr
     Attr(Symbol name, Value * value, PosIdx pos = noPos)
         : name(name), pos(pos), value(value) { };
     Attr() { };
-    bool operator < (const Attr & a) const
+    auto operator <=> (const Attr & a) const
     {
-        return name < a.name;
+        return name <=> a.name;
     }
 };